One of the most important signs of puberty is the sexual feeling, sexual desire (libido sexualis). Sexual feeling in women, develops gradually. In libido, it is necessary to distinguish two different components: the desire of mutual exchange and the desire of sexual intercourse. Women have particularly developed the first.
Characteristically, it can be developed totally independently, without going to another. It is an emotional relationship with the person of the other sex to the doctor for a defined time as "higher love." Because of this feeling, the person becomes very near and dear. In contrast, in men, in particular the importance of the desire of sexual intercourse that doctors define as the sensual component of love. This component includes the desire to get certain feelings of enjoyment that arise in the process of intimacy.
Therefore, if the sexual attraction of men mostly manifests itself with a sensual side, and only later (in 21-25 years) combined with the feeling of love for a friend, then the girls in the presence of the composition to a convergence of course is no desire for sexual intercourse. This desire arises only after months of sexual civil life, and often, only after the first birth.
Thus, in the structure of sexual desire of women the main element in all the stages of life is the love to the beloved. Sensual the same component, usually a young woman, for some time, even after sex, and then slowly develops.
Physiology of sexual intercourse in women
To better understand the mechanism of the sexual relationships in the body of the woman, we suggest to familiarize with the anatomy of the female genital organs.
Sexual intercourse (coitus) occurs generally under the influence of sexual arousal (voluptas), the highest point of which is the orgasm (orgasmus) after him comes the period of calm (defluvium) that occurs after sexual intercourse. The lack of sexual excitement in women is called frigidity. During intercourse, the man erect penis pushes the walls of the vagina, and with a comprehensive introduction fills it.
The introduction of the erect penis is facilitated by the ability of the vagina to stretch considerably. Because of the emergence of sexual arousal before the introduction of the penis into the vagina men of glands of Cooper spills out the secret of the adhesive, which wets the head of the penis and makes it slippery. Substance secreted by special glands in the head, makes the head of fat, which also facilitates its introduction into the vagina.
Large and small lips set in a particular tissue surrounded by connective tissue. During the sexual excitement is engorged with blood, the output of which is terminated, while the influx continues. The result is an inflammation of the clitoris, large and small lips, with the formation of elastic rollers. Thanks to these transformations in the access to the vagina becomes free. At the same time, the female prostate, are small glands of the vestibule and the cervix emit light, transparent mucus.
During intercourse not only not observed any resistance, but, on the contrary, it is much easier and frictions are painless.
The woman also involved in the process: the skin and the mucosa of the penis is rubbed against the transverse folds of the vagina. At the same time, there are involuntary rhythmic contractions of the vaginal walls as a result of the activity of their sphincters. These reductions are especially relevant just before the resolution of the inflammation of the genital organs.
How is the female orgasm?
When both participants in the intercourse there is a feeling of sensuality as a result of excitation of nerve cells, located at the tip of my penis, and the woman at the head of the clitoris, in the vagina, the vulva and the vagina. Irritation, which are perceived by these nerve endings are transmitted to the spinal cord and then to the brain. These irritations accumulate and intensify until they reach a level of excitement that occurs a number of new reflexes. The end of the link is the expulsion of semen in men (ejaculation) and the secretion of the glands of the cervix and Bartolini glands in women. The ejaculation is accompanied by a voluptuous sensation of the orgasm. The origin of the orgasm is not completely understood.
Women to have an orgasm that there must be sufficient irritation of erogenous zones and erotic mentally in preparation for sexual intercourse. Unlike the men, the women, increase the orgasm is much slower, and the decay time. The period of the "peaks" of orgasm, although for a long time.
Orgasm intensity is very variable and depends on the temperament and the Constitution of man. The orgasm may not occur as a result of the reduction of the excitability of the corresponding parts of the visual hills damage to this website or the braking effect of the cerebral cortex caused by psychogenic factors (indifference, disdain, etc.).
We should also mention this unusual and very strong sensations of orgasm how to squirt or jet orgasm. Its essence is that the woman cums liquid: a small fountain of clear splashing of liquid outside of the vagina during orgasmic contractions. This fluid formed in special glands, not to be confused with the urine. To achieve a strong orgasm a woman can, if the man will stimulate the anterior vaginal wall or the g-spot.
How long is a sex act in a woman?
The normal length of sexual intercourse ranges from 2 to 6 minutes. However, here the great value has the character of a person. For the duration of the sexual relationship is also influenced by the intervals between the sex. Throughout, sexual content, and strong sexual arousal to reduce considerably the duration of sexual intercourse.
To what during sex in women do not lead?
One of the more serious psychological trauma women may be disappointing in person. Married with the person that has caused its bright and high feelings, she discovers suddenly cynical look his men in the sexual life, in which it plays the role of mere instruments of pleasure.
This is why it is of special importance is the proportion of male to female during sexual intercourse. Rudeness and tactlessness, discovered by her husband during the first sexual intercourse, creates in women a negative reflection of the sexual relationship. And if the following relations do not make positive changes, this reflection becomes pathological, leading to greater sexual frigidity. The more prudent should be the attitude of a young girl who has not had sexual relations.
If she is still a virgin, feel the fear of the first sexual intercourse. Therefore, not in what was accomplished on the basis of his wife's first sexual intercourse is, without a doubt, in the "first night" and quietly wait a few days to process day-to-day woman is afraid.
In this sense, girls who are married, the doctors would have to do interviews, to explain to them that the loss of virginity is not a disaster, since often it seems that to some. The hymen is only very rarely solid. Basically there is a hole. If the form of the hymen is such that the sexual relationship violates his integrity, the first sexual act she is working; this marked a slight pain. The bleeding that occurs in these cases, insignificant.
Injury during sex
Complications, and trauma during sexual intercourse can occur in both men and women. Sometimes the woman during intercourse can be significant damage in the treatment of genital. The breaking of the hymen depends on the degree of mechanical action. The results of this damage are varied: the hymen tears, lacerations, and even the separation of the hymen, mainly rectal Department.
These injuries occur due to the printing and stretching with the introduction of the penis into the hole of the hymen. The edges of the hymen in this case pressed inwards due to the distension and rupture.
Breaks during intercourse, can occur in different places, but most often they are in figure 6 (for the accuracy in the marking of gaps is conventionally portrayed them with the clock face) or on the sides. When the rupture of the hymen at 6 of the clock sometimes roughly carried out sexual intercourse, the hymen torn posterior wall of the vagina, mainly in the mucosa. In severe degree of immaturity of the reproductive organs these damages can go to the complete rupture of the perineum and vaginal walls and vaults.
In children of women which is a consequence of the underdevelopment of the genitals, and in the elderly and old - the result of the atrophy and fragility of the tissues.
There are also complications, such as ulcerative reduction in women of the vagina, resulting in so strong a pinched member, the front, especially the head, grows considerably, and the member cannot be withdrawn from the vagina. In these cases, the woman has to expose anesthesia or eliminate the infringement with a hot bath.
Sometimes, during intercourse, difficulties arise in relation to the dryness of the mucosa at the vaginal in case of violation of secretion of the glands of Cowper or special glands. In these cases, dryness of the mucosa prior to sexual intercourse, it is recommended to moisten for smearing an emulsion of grease, ointment or saliva.
Rare, but still happens is a catastrophic complication during sex as death. Death in relation to the sexual intercourse occurs during or shortly after him more often in men than in women, the elderly, patients with multiple sclerosis cerebral and coronary arteries, especially when it was preceded by overeating or abuse of alcohol. Death can be the result of the stroke, myocardial infarction, embolism, heart failure, and tuberculosis severe bleeding pulmonary.
In some cases, gynecologists and forensic doctors have to deal with the complaints of the men, especially this happens in families, the preaching of Islam. Last after the wedding night accused their wives in fraud in connection with a small number or complete lack of blood. In his opinion, this fact is a test of long-violations of the hymen. However, the examination in these cases almost always show that men have been misled by the presence of their wives, these forms of the hymen, which in its anatomical features allow a sexual relationship without integrity violations. If the hymen are very low, the discharge of blood from the surface of the tears is too small or not at all.
Obstacles to sex women have: vaginismus, infantilism of the genitalia, severe atrophy processes in them, the ugliness of the development of the external genitalia or internal (hymen, vagina), inflammation, tumors, etc.